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We all know that Mother’s Day is on May 9th, 2011.  We also know that the focus will be on Mom’s.

Lovedrive101.com wants all men to focus on what their wives have done for them during the year.

Glass sex toys will offer you and your spouse a whole new type of sensation not only the hardness of the material, but also through temperature play in the bedroom.

One of the greatest things about glass sex toys is that they are non-porous.  This means that the material the toy is made out of will not absorb germs, bacteria and other fluids or material that get on the toy.  For cleaning, glass toys can be fully sterilized by boiling or even being put in a dishwasher. This ability to be sterilized is also why glass toys are highly recommended for anal play; you don’t have to worry about germs living in the pores of the toy.  You can also use soap and water or toy cleaner to clean your glass sex toys.

For our special for the month of May when you purchase a glass dildo you will also get a lubricant for free.

We want you as a couple to come closer in the bedroom and enjoy your new glass toy that you have bought for your spouse.

Lets embrace what hard work that women do for their families and spouses and buy them a glass sex toy and get a lub for free!

Thanks to all who have enter in our giveaway.  I entered all the numbers in Random.org and the lucky number is 80.  Congratulation  to Nikki!

Enter our giveaway:  Intimate Caress Kama Sutra.  The winner will get to choose from one of our three varieties of Intimate Caress.  Pomegranate, honeysuckle, Coconut Pineapple Shaving Crème

Intimate Caress:  Indulge yourself in the ultra-rich moisturizing shave crème.  Made with Aloe Vera and Jojoba seed oil for smooth, sensual skin, this specially formulated crème give your body the tender loving care it needs for personal shaving.  Rich, moisturizing and gently scented, it leaves your most sensitive skin silky, smooth and ready for love.  Intimate Caress was created for use anywhere on the body.

The cream is ideal for using in the shower – just apply it to warm wet skin, shave and rinse.
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Here is how to enter:
Leave a comment on which Intimate Caress would like to win.

After you have posted your comet, then you are more than welcome to do any of the following for additional entries, but you have to let me know what you have done so that it will count.

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Entries will be accepted until midnight on April 21, 2011

The winner will be drawn by random generator and post the winner on April 22, 2011

The winner will be contacted by email.

This giveaway is open for US residents

Good Luck!

Do you ever feel that you are just too busy for your spouse?  Do you ever think that your marriage may be in trouble because you are not making time for your spouse? You know that you are still in love with your spouse.  As you continue to read this article then you will learn how important it is to bring the romance back into the marriage so that we can fix it before it is too late.

When you were first marriage you were in love and always made time for each other.  Then as life goes on you get busy you have kids and you place the romance on the back burner.  As you start to realize that the romance has been erased from your marriage you will think where has all the time gone?  Then you realize that your busy life has gotten in the way of your marriage and what is important to you.

Your kids are really important to you, and they require a lot of attention.  As a couple it is really important to learn how to take time for yourselves.  Get a babysitter or have the grandparents watch the kids while you make time to bring the romance back into your marriage.  Sometimes all you need is to go out to dinner and just enjoy each other company.  It is also important to show attention to your spouse every day.  Start with kissing each other every time you leave the house.  Leaving I love you note on the steering wheel of the car will bring a smile to your face.

You will also want to communicate with each other to make sure that you are on the same page when it comes to love making.  You may be in the mood but your spouse may have other things on their mind.   Set a date night where you both are on the same page when it comes to love making.

1.       Schedule regular dates with your spouse
As the years of marriage have gone by you may have realized that you have lost the passion in your marriage. Your busy life has taken over what is really important as a couple.  To bring back the romance in your marriage you will want to schedule a date night every week with your spouse and make this an important event. You can not feel love together if you are not together.

2.       Look for the fun

Remember the old dating days when you were open to having fun.  You were willing to try new things that would keep the excitement going. So each date night that was scheduled was a fun adventure because they consistent of something new with each date.  You played games; you tried new things, and never had the same date twice.

Then as a couple you started to get comfortable with each other and started to focus on the more predictable and familiar things about each other. We end up reaching for the warm and cozy sweats instead of the lingerie and couples toys.  The downside to such predictability is at times is might seem quite boring.  You will want to start doing the spontaneous  dates that will start the excitement in life.

3.       Remember the old dating days when you were carefree on your dates and could talk to each other for hours?  You didn’t know anything about them so you were open to talking about their thoughts and ideas and laughing at their jokes.  Now after years of marriage you may feel like there really isn’t much more that needs to be said; you’ve pretty much covered it all. Have you ever noticed that now if your partner starts telling a story or joke that you’ve heard before you actually tell them you’ve already heard that joke so no need to finish it?

Couples that can talk and laugh together are couples that have the best shot at rekindling the romance. The ability to actually connect verbally is one of the biggest needs of many women so men need to learn to connect to a woman through listening and talking. For many women, there is nothing more romantic than a partner that truly wants to hear her heart and can actually connect to the ideas and thoughts she’s sharing. Remember back in the day we could listen to each other’s stories over and over again because for some reason it fed us? Personally, I’ve found that there is no better aphrodisiac than some good conversation and laughter to make both of you feel closer to each other.

4.       Eye to eye

Try looking into your partner’s eyes for 7 minutes without talking. While you’re staring at each other, take a second and ask yourself, “What is it like to be my partner and married to me?” Then just learn to relax as you look into each other’s eyes. See what you end up feeling for each other.

5.       Touch
Start a new ritual with your partner called “Cuddle Time.” Every night before going to sleep, cuddle with your partner for 10 minutes. Cuddle Time should be 10 minutes of uninterrupted time to talk and touch. This is a time to talk about your relationship and about your future together. This isn’t a time to talk about car pool or the kids. It should be focused on the two of you. The touch is not sexual, but rather a show of affection.

Now that it is summer you are aware that eating all that winter comfort foods, you are aware that your body is not exactly bikini friendly. Bonnie Taub-Dix, R.D. says It’s lucky, then, that in the summer we naturally crave a different family of foods that boost our mood and appreciation of our body. “In the summer, when people are more dehydrated from the sun, they’re more likely to eat energizing, tummy-flattening, water-based foods such as citrus, spinach, and cold soup,” “When people feel healthier and lighter, they feel more comfortable in their skin. And that new found confidence creates a sexy frame of mind, prompting you to hit the sheets more often.”

As a couple that wants to rekindle the love back into the marriage, what a great time to do this than summer when you are eating more water-based foods that help you feel like grabbing your favorite sex toy and jumping into bed.

With the warm weather you don’t even have to try to look hot, because your woman is already wearing her cutoff shorts and tank tops, and also her sexy strapless dress. So she has already setting the mood for you. As he has noticed how sexy you are looking he will want to discover you more.

In the winter we stay inside our houses and really don’t get much sun.  Now that summer is upon us, you will want to take to the sexy outdoors to experience sensations.  “The beauty of having sex in the nature is that it engages all of your senses – the aroma of fresh flowers, the cool breeze on your warm skin, the soft earth under your body,” Says Gilda Carle, PH.D, author of 99 Prescriptions for Fidelity. “These new stimuli make sex more of a mind body experience.” So think about a private beach, backyard or where ever else you make want to experience having great sex with your spouse in the sun.

Let’s reconnect with your spouse and be spontaneous when it comes to having sex in the sun.

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When it comes to summer love Justin Timberlake knows what he is singing about.  People tend to feel more sexual in warm weather because they’re visually stimulated by all the flesh on display, according to Debby Herbenick phd, author of Because it feel good.  We’re subconsciously reminded of sex because the fun flushes the skin in very similar ray to the glow people have when they are aroused.  So lets embrace the sultry season full on.
Each day we will post why summer love is better.

What is the difference between good sex and great sex? Good sex is just about having an orgasm, and great sex is about anticipating an orgasm. This means thinking about the finish line as the icing, not the cake because why would you want to miss out on any of the yummy goodness?

Even if foreplay is a focus of your couples play, the goodies aren’t going anywhere.  So let’s take our time getting them?


Do you as a couple bother with the rest of the body? There are many other parts of your body that are insanely sensitive.  As a couple why not spice up the love by tying some other parts of the body such as the back of your knees, the arch of your foot, inside of your elbow and even the back of your neck. As you experiment with other parts of the body this will bring you more pleasure.

You just might be surprised at how sexy it is when your spouse runs their tongue along the length of your spine so slowly that you can hardly stand it. The key to this is to surprise your spouse with something new and leave them guessing for what will be coming next.


How do you go about slowing down and wandering outside of the proverbial lines?  Here are a few ideas on how to get started.
1.     As a couple will want to make the oblivious body parts off limits. When you can’t touch the easy-to-spot goodies, you’re more likely to discover other parts of the body.  With your couples play when you find other parts of the body to focus on you will find that your foreplay will become more exciting as you get to know the other parts of your spouse’s body and what make then get excited.

2.    Take the egg timer out of the kitchen and put it in the bedroom.  Pick some part of the body that you want to focus on and flip the timer.  Focus on that part of the body until the timer runs out.  Then move to the next part no matter how much you partner begs you to stay longer.

3.    Put off the grand finale for a few days.  Sex doesn’t have to end in orgasm.  Orgasm is not the only way to experience pleasure. You as a couple may be surprised at how much you slow down and focus on other body parts when the only goal is to enjoy, then when you finally decide to go for it you will be surprised at how good it feels.

The point is to mix thing up and be creative when it comes to intimacy.  As you think of you spouses body as a vast pleasure this will bring you closer as a couple. It may be uncomfortable when you first try this technique the more you experiment with your spouse’s body then it will leave them guessing what will come next.

There’s a reason that we don’t order the same thing on the menu.  No one is stopping you, but would it continue to satisfy? This is why we want to mix up our love making with our spouse.  We want to keep the intimacy alive and not always having the same thing so mix thing up in the bedroom so that you spouses will always be guessing on what will come next with your couples play.